Reaction: sometime it make things beautiful & sometime destroy everything!!!
Reaction : ye wo feeling hai jo hum sab express karte hai ek dusre ko unki kari hui harkato pr acchi buri hr tarah ki, kabhi kabhi ye harkate hume boht happiness, peace deti hai encourage karti hai or kabhi toh wahi happiness, peace cheen k depression de deti hai. Iss tarah se hurt karti hai ki hum soch bhi ni sakte jinke reaction se hum khush hote hai wahi reactions hume chot pauhcha dete hai... Or wo jo chot hoti hai wo hmare close relations hmare apno me distance le aati hai!!!
'Reaction' ye toh atleast hmare pe depend hona chahiye na ki hum kin baaton pr kin situations pr jesa chahe wesa react kar sake Or haan ye humpe hi depend karta hai pr tbb tk jb tk hum kisi aur ko itne rights nahi dete ki agla hume ye bhi batae ki abb hume 'reaction' kesa dena hai.
Lekin hum apne emotions me itne beh jaate hai ki agla hum pr haavi hojata hai aur hum samjh bhi ni paate ya shayd kuch rishton me bandh k hum samajhna nahi chahte aur tab tak ye jo hmare react karne k tareeke hote hai wo bhi badalte jaate hai.
Life me boht si situations aati hai jisme react karna bhi zaruri hota hai kyunki agar aap react nahi karte toh saamne wala aapko na pehchan paega aur na kabhi samjh paaega.
Ab ye jo 'Reaction' hai ye humare upar depend karta hai ki hum kesa react karte hai lekin agla usko kis way me leta hai ye bhi agar hum hi soche Or fr react kare toh isme hum khud ko kese express kar paenge?????
Hum sab alag alag rishton me bandhe hote hai, Maa papa, bhai, behen pati patni inn sabhi rishton ki apni alag importance hoti hai!
Ye rishte hume boht kuch sikhate hai or inn sabhi rishton me ek husband wife ka rishta hota hai jisme hum boht si nasamjhi, galti, pyar, masti sab karte hai or inn sabme sabse jayda ek dusre pe believe, understand karte hai pr kabhi kabhi life me up & downs , daily routine se fedup ho k frustrate hojate hai aur iss frustration ki wajah se clashes ka hona ek dusre ko bad reactions dena common hai har kisi k sath hota hai!!!
Pr aesi conversation me hume ek dusre ko sunna samjhna chaye iski jagah ki "chup hoja abb"🤫 "Koi baat nahi, Relax, Chill kr, Jaane de hota hai, ignore kr, tujhme maturity nahi hai, Bachpana hai" at last Tum hi galat ho " End of the topic"😊
Kyunnnn??? Ek hi kyun chup rahe? Ky wo apni baat ko sahi sabit ni kar skta? Ya jo bhi galat ho raha hai usse accept karle Or khudko bebas? Sirf ek rishta nibhane k liye agle ka bebas ho k khamosh ho jana kya sahi hai?
Ye hr uss individual k liye hai jo kisi na kisi rishton me bandha hai aur uss rishte ko last breath tak nibhana chahta hai!!!
Agar humne apni feelings ko express karke react karna band kardia aur srf samjhaute karte rahe life me toh ese kese khush reh paenge aur ye rishte kese nibhenge.....?
Rishton me boht se samjhaute karne padte hai lekin har dafa aap hi galat ho ye ni ho sakta!!!!!!